Is this really talking $H!T about someone?? please help!!! :(:(?

for an older guy he is kind of a wuss. hes mad because you were venting about him and said some things that may have upset him because of his own insecurities. im no psychiatrist but i definitely think you hit a soft spot on him by talking to someone else about something he may have never told anyone. its his own fault, stay away from older guys. they dont want commitment at all. they really just want you to want them